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Guide to Working with Military-Connected Children and Youth

Parental Absences

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Military members do not have control over most of their periods of separation from their family; they are a condition of service in the military. The frequent absences of a military member are often unpredictable and open to change, and this uncertainty can have a profound impact on families. Frequent or extended time away can affect the health and well-being of every person in the military family, including children.

Factors affecting children and youth deployment stress

  • age and emotional development, including ability to express feelings and cope with separation
  • previous experience with parental absence/deployment
  • sense of security in family and community relationships
  • level of attachment to absent parent, how much time they spend together
  • Individual child
    • age and emotional development, including ability to express feelings and cope with separation
    • previous experience with parental absence/deployment
    • sense of security in family and community relationships
    • level of attachment to absent parent, how much time they spend together

Emotional cycle of deployment 

No two people — even within the same family — will react to a parent’s deployment in exactly the same way. However, there is almost always some reaction to the absence of their parent. This is normal. Understanding the different phases in the emotional cycle of deployment can help you to best support them through what can be a difficult time.

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