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Information and Referral

Melissa DeCruze brings first-hand experience as a military spouse to her role as Information and Referral—a position that requires her be up-to-date on what resources and services Mainland BC MFRC can offer their families. 

Coming Full Circle

Melissa is no stranger to military life. Her husband joined the CAF at age 18, which means Melissa has seen him through many stages of his military career. When the couple decided to move to Vancouver from Toronto in 2019, they reached out to Mainland BC MFRC to establish some connections prior to their move. When they arrived, she met with the Community Engagement Officer, who helped the couple integrate into their community.

Over two years later and Melissa is now employed in the very office where she once sought assistance. She works with families posted to the area, helping them establish those same connections that she benefited from back in 2019.

“I provide information about BC, as well as information about our MFRC—what we can offer them, what kind of supports are available to them, and how we can help them integrate into their own communities…how to be a part of not only the military world, but to the civilian world as well…just like [my husband] and I did.”

Increasing Awareness: “Different” isn’t Always Negative

Part of Melissa’s role is to increase awareness of how Mainland BC MFRC can assist its families. Every MFRC in Canada operates differently, and, as first point of contact for new families, Melissa’s job is to communicate how these differences aren’t necessarily negative. 

“There are things other MFRCs may offer that our families might be used to that we don’t. I assure families that—despite our differences—we can assist and our here for them.”  

The Mainland BC MFRC relies heavily on the impact of their outreach and a personalized approach to serving their communities. Melissa works closely with CAF members and their families to provide them with resources and services tailored to their specific needs.

And, if the size of the staff’s collection of Good News Stories is any indication, it’s easy to see that this approach is clearly working. 

“Whether it’s a photo of a child with their latest Dolly Parton's Imagination Library book, a new family with their Soldier Bear, or a written thank you note, we know our impact because we have these stories. Sometimes I’ll start my day by reading a few of them, and it’s a great reminder of why we are here…why we do what we do. We literally see the impact.”

More than Just a Job

Melissa enjoys an active outdoor lifestyle while also embracing the “cozier” things in life. She cherishes her time with her own family and understands the importance of work/life balance.

She also enjoys exploring various communities within BC which allows her to share her knowledge with Mainland BC's military families.

"My role goes beyond my job. I'm constantly learning, and am happy to provide information to those in need, personally and professionally. I believe that we're all connected in some way and what you put out is what you get back, and I try to base my life on that.”